dwele the dj

he does it so well, and looks hella good doing it...

eyecandy....Barrett Helms

also know as the light skin guy with no speaking lines in the movie "Precious". this man is sexy, and everyone who knows me knows i stray away from the light brights, but he might just be that one exception....

NIKE SNOWBOARDING ZOOM FORCE 1

simple statement: i want these

#nowplaying Weekend Love - Dwele

hopped out the shower and this song was playing on my early morning wake up mix, its nothing like slipping on a fresh pair of socks well listening to the sultry sound of mr. gardner's voice, its the formula for starting a great day, morning all!

...now i need something sweet

there is no reason that a "McCafe" should every sound that sexy and tempting, but i guess thats what happens when you put Dwele on the keys and mic. (lord please excuse my impure thoughts about that man). all i can say is i'm going to mickey dee's before class because all of a sudden my sweet tooth is booming!!!

surving valentines day...single girls rejoice

feb 14, 2010 is right around the corner and for 'some' this will be a bad day. those 'some', are singles who don't know how to truly enjoy being single during holidays. i've only had two valentine dates(seventh grade and two years ago), so its clear that i have had time to get used to a single's valetines day.

there is no point in sitting in the house watching sappy love movies about friends who realize they love each other. get out, go shake your butt, enjoy your life!!! if you've never been on a 'me date' now would be the perfect time to start. take yourself out, go to dinner, catch a movie, take a moon lit stroll.

personally i haven't set my plans in stone, but i know i will not be in the house thinking about "the great love that got away" or "the love that could have been". i'll be getting sexy for myself(hair, nails, clothes, shoes, the works), and enjoying my night.


**i'll be dancing to this one on 2.14.10**

and if you feel that you're not strong enough to survive a valetines day alone, include your other single friends. make this an enjoyable experience for you and your closest female friends. its nothing like walking in to a club, restaurant,movie theater with your gang looking like a million bucks.



**i'll be getting dressed to this**


**i'll be singing this with my homies**

whatever you do, ladies if you are single don't be afraid to enjoy your valetines day, boyfriend or not, every girl deserves a wonderful valetines day, go out and buy yourself a huge teddy bear, box of chocolate,and flowers. ENJOY!!!

fresh prince....buwahahahaha

listen to the letter she is reading, i promise you will be in tears

the weird shit i youtube....divorce edition

'o she's a golddigger way over town that digs on me!'-jamie foxx

shoe sex....L.A.M.B "Zan" Sandals

haven't done a shoe sex write up in awhile but the has taken me out of my "drought". i have always admired the L.A.M.B shoe line, its always been very edgy and trendy. the Zan sandal is no expection.

they are currently available on heels.com and zappos.com for about 380 bones, geesh valetines day is swiftly approaching and i know i won't be getting chocolates, flowers, and a giant teddy bear, but if i could get these i would defiantly feel the love.

shoes via highsnobette.com

now playing...storm-lenny kravitz feat jay z

...Feet hit the ground runnin' and my back's to the wind/Angels on my shoulders, head in the clouds/No, I'm not rappin', I'm just thinkin' real loud/My karma's my armor, my charm and wit/Is like a lethal bomb, I'm warm and s***

now playing...anthony hamilton - the point of it all

...one of the most beautiful love songs from a man to a woman, sometimes a woman needs to hear this from her significant other. just to hear that they are loved. can't wait to fall in love with someone and know that they love me right back. until then i'll be playing this and day dreaming.

for my grandmother

got a phone call a few minutes ago and i am a bit shell shocked. my grandmother, johnie mae wesley passed. she was one of the most beautiful women i was blessed to be loved by.

love you grandma, now you are at rest with grandpa and uncle kenneth. i'm going to miss you so much,your hugs and kisses, the teacakes with raisins, walking around the front yard arm in arm with you and the dogs, and sneaking to take your picture(she hated posing about as much as me).

just a bit of chicago at night...jackson ave chillin

so classes have officially restarted for me, after leaving my night class i decided to hop off the train and go walk around downtown for a minute. as i walked around jackson and state i remembered that i had my camera in my bag, jackson ave chillin....

ken & dana designs reaching out to haiti

a lot of people are affected by the recent earth quake in haiti. i have friends who haven't been able to get in contact with their family members there, and while relief is being sent there, we can not send people peace of mind and reassurance.

now i can't think of a real solution to help but i saw this necklace by "ken & dana design". a purchase will insure a 30 dollar donation to the red cross.....just saying you may not want the necklace but haiti still needs the help. so please send help.

....to my wife!

***my honeybee!!!***

i'm blessed to be surrounded by great people, they make me who i am. we share joyful moments and tears, back stabbing, treachery,and all type of craziness. our lives are constantly intertwined but i can't lie, with the friends i have i don't mind that this is so. so without further ado, happy 21st birthday Melissa Renee Jones, my honeybee, we'll be dating one another until we find our mr. perfects...LOVE YOU MUCH LADY!!!

adventures with winnie the pooh and bearbrick

when i saw this i automatically started humming the theme to "the adventures of winnie the pooh"(one of my favorite cartoons when i was around 5 or 6 years old). Medicom, snapped with this one and i'm not big on figurines(i'm very lukewarm and it doesn't make much of a difference to me either way) , but for this set i wouldn't mind keeping them in their box in my living room.

streetlights

Aakash Nihalani’s On & Off (Often On)

studded collars take a turn...

when i think of studded collars i think about leather, spandex, and dark makeup. so seeing the colette and burberry collaboration, my jaw automatically dropped. i really love the cut of these coats, i need one of two in my closet for spring...seriously.

music monday 1.11.10

monday morning, i hop out bed and i'm feeling rather sexy and in love with myself(these are the days that can't be explained how wonderful they actually are). as i shuffled to the shower i turned on one of my favorite albums, Fly or Die by N.E.R.D., the random play order made,"the way she dance" come on. in the shower i danced to the tune, if you're a chick ever wanting to start off the day feeling good and slightly sexy play this song.

the things i don't do

***no shots are being fired here i just need to vent for a second. no mean to offend anyone, but this is my blog and i'll say whatever is on my chest.***

i must admit in my younger days i used to get caught in messy situations that could have been avoided by simply shutting my mouth and letting scenes play out minus my opinion. so as i have become a bit mature(not totally, but i am working on it everyday), i have decided to just shut my mouth and live life.

when i feel that i want a question answered i just ask the person one time and hope that they are honest in answering and just keep it moving. i'm not going to turn into a parrot asking the same thing, looking for different answers. there's no real time to be bothered with that process. webster says that insanity is doing the same act hoping that there will be a different result. there is nothing in life that i am willing to make me go crazy. i guess i trust alot and let go, so here are a couple of things you'll never catch me doing.....

1. honesty box - i'm not going to go anonymous and try and gather information. in my opinion i just don't have it in my to try and fool people. i give people answers they want/need in first person, so i trust they will do the same.
2. broken record- over and over with the same topic. i don't do it. i know of some people who ask the same questions hoping to find dirt, my granddad has taught me alot about life but one of his lessons that stand to me is "don't go digging in the mud, cause you will always find dirt"--t.o.sr. i figure this much, whatever is supposed to come into the light will, there's no point in forcing it to.
3. kung fu killer wolf bitch- i don't and won't fight, its much easier and less draining to just walk away
   
4. ms. with her nose in your biz!-i'm not about to search to know each and everything about you.
   

these are just things i don't do.